A Mate of Life

Hanya selepas walimah:)

Humans are created as pairs. Even parallel lines will meet one day, and do you think this is impossible? Think of the possible people. There are so many sayings and quotes telling how best things that come forward appear in two and not one. Two is better than one as in the song by Boys Like Girls and so on and on.

So what is about mate of life, that I am gonna write today? Since I step into the phase of being a young woman and no longer that childish girl, and since I am in college, people always remind me to start off praying for a whole-life mate. A whole-life mate here generally means a man whom a woman can regard as a lawful husband for her entire life. I just realised this subject to be really important. Before this, I never took this as a serious matter.

Aku cinta akan agamaku lebih daripadamu:)

Yesterday, I went for a talk on woman and multiple careers which was conducted by a respectable brilliant lecturer, Dr Izyani is I was not mistaken. She is now married to a man whom she loves, and they live in prosperity in terms of love and life. She said, she had practiced the solat istikharah for this "Jodoh' matter since she was form 1. Later, a name kept popping inside her brain until she continues her matriculation. A name of a man, unknown man, suddenly kept appearing inside her mind. Only after she almost completed her degree that she finally met her true love who has the same name as the name that kept resembling after so many years. However, they never go for dates. Their first official date was only during the convocation ceremony but not just the two of them, it was between them and their parents. It happened after they two got engaged. Soon, they got married, and again pursuing master and she won the gold medal for one of her researches. Now, both of them, the couple are living happily together with two kids and even though both possesses high-rank and busy jobs, they can still cooperate and manage the family with wisdom.

What else could be more rejoicing for a woman to have a wonderful husband who loves her more than she loves him, who cares every single time, who is well-educated in Islam, highly educated and could lead her from being astray?  And, what could a woman ask for rather than having a terrific, well-brought up family with all the knowledge of the world and the here after?

With this, here is the doa cari jodoh that I found out to be really helpful. It is already the time ladies, for us to start praying to Allah so that, we can find the best soul mate to be with till death. Rethink:)

Ya Allah...
Seandainya telah Engkau catatkan
dia akan mejadi teman menapaki hidup
Satukanlah hatinya dengan hatiku
Titipkanlah kebahagiaan diantara kami
Agar kemesraan itu abadi
Dan ya Allah... ya Tuhanku yang Maha Pengasih
Seiringkanlah kami melayari hidup ini
Ke tepian yang sejahtera dan abadi
Tetapi ya Allah...
Seandainya telah Engkau takdirkan...
Dia bukan milikku
Bawalah ia jauh dari pandanganku
Luputkanlah ia dari ingatanku
Ambillah kebahagiaan ketika dia ada disisiku
Dan peliharalah aku dari kekecewaan

Ya Allah ya Tuhanku yang Maha Mengerti...
Berikanlah aku kekuatan
Melontar bayangannya jauh ke dada langit
Hilang bersama senja nan merah
Agarku bisa berbahagia walaupun tanpa
bersama dengannya

Dan ya Allah yang tercinta...
Gantikanlah yang telah hilang
Tumbuhkanlah kembali yang telah patah
Walaupun tidak sama dengan dirinya

Ya Allah ya Tuhanku...
Pasrahkanlah aku dengan takdirMu
Sesungguhnya apa yang telah Engkau takdirkan
Adalah yang terbaik buatku
Kerana Engkau Maha Mengetahui
Segala yang terbaik buat hambaMu ini

Ya Allah...
Cukuplah Engkau saja yang menjadi
pemeliharaku
Di dunia dan di akhirat
Dengarlah rintihan dari hambaMu yang daif ini

Jangan Engkau biarkan aku sendirian
Di dunia ini maupun di akhirat
Menjuruskan aku ke arah kemaksiatan dan
kemungkaran
Maka kurniakanlah aku seorang pasangan yang
beriman
Supaya aku dan dia dapat membina
kesejahteraan hidup
Ke jalan yang Engkau redhai
Dan kurniakanlah padaku keturunan yang soleh

amin ya rabbal alamin:)

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